Memorial Service Recalls Three Lives Ended Too Early
BU students killed in New Zealand crash honored
Excerpts from BU Today:
Roch Jauberty gobbled life in chunks. He grew up in two places (Los Angeles and Paris), studied two majors (economics and international relations, plus a minor in business), juggled classes with jobs and student government service, and indulged his global curiosity studying in New Zealand.
“His life was like a fireworks show whose sparkles reached many hearts,” his father, Christian, wrote.
That fireworks show was extinguished in May, when Jauberty (CAS’14), Austin Brashears (ENG’13), and Daniela Lekhno (SMG’13) died in a van rollover on a remote road in New Zealand. Spring’s shock has yielded to fall’s promise of a new academic year, but “the work of grieving continues in this hour,” Marsh Chapel Dean Robert Hill reminded several hundred people at a memorial service yesterday in the George Sherman Union. Friends and family spoke of the victims’ lives; Brother Larry Whitney, University chaplain for community life, read the remarks from Christian Jauberty, who was unable to attend.
Four months after the tragedy, the accident clearly continues to stab at the heart of the BU community. Grief-stricken students hugged and reminisced in the hall outside the GSU’s Metcalf Ballroom before the service began, and a table in the back of the ballroom, stocked with 10 boxes of tissues, drew many takers during the proceedings.
President Robert A. Brown told the crowd that as he presided over the University’s Matriculation ceremony earlier this month, “I was touched profoundly by a sense of uncertainty, with the awareness that we could not know the future,” born of the van tragedy. “As a father, I know that I can only begin to understand that sorrow” felt by the parents of the victims. “To the parents of Austin, Roch, and Daniela, please know that you have our deepest sympathies and we will hold you in our hearts.…Our community is diminished by this great loss.”
A quartet of Daniela Lekhno’s friends—Madeline Baker (CAS’13), Helen Israel (CAS’13), Alys McAlpine (SMG’13), and Hope Thomason (CAS’13)—choked back tears as they spoke from the podium, variously describing a woman of intellectual confidence who relished debate, never gave in, and usually won, yet who once asked a friend to candidly tell her her flaws, because it was “better to know them now. I told her, honestly, I would never change anything about her.”
She was a woman who “had hour-long conversations in Russian with her parents about life at BU”; who “was always concerned with others’ problems as if they were her own”; and who “was wise beyond her years.” She once wrote that “the hardest thing in life is having the self-control to deny ourselves the comfort of sadness.”
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Story by Rich Barlow. Photo by Cydney Scott via BU Today.